Another Migraine, a Drugged Night, and No More Occupational Therapy

Then, at 6am, my cell phone rings. Then, I hear notification that a voicemail was left, and then another phone call. I was so annoyed, but worried maybe someone had died or something.
It was someone from Mom's occupational therapy company pleading with me to help. Dad cancelled it because there was an error and something was being sent to Mom's facility. She said that they really think that the occupational therapy is helping her, so if we won't go with her company to go somewhere else, but also that they've rectified the situation.
So this morning, I call Dad to see what the story is and he's beligerent - no more occupational therapy because he doesn't see that it helps and he doesn't want to deal with this company anymore. And no more chinese moss either.
I am so angry with him and just upset that he is so unwilling to try things to help Mom. But, on an up note, my migraine has gone away completely.
4 Comments:
Karma--I don't wonder why you had migraine! All the emotional upheaval and change of the past couple of weeks! I had an awful one last weekend, so I'm sympathizing deeply. I often feel pre-migraine right after I get past some stressful event. But I'm sorry your father isn't going with the therapy--but just remember that your Mom has the homemaker you arranged for, and that has got to be just as valuable to her well-being. My guess is that whenever she sees the homemaker, she'll also see you--I find my mother making connections like that more easily now, kind of blurring the lines. In your mother's case, it might mean that she still thinks you're close by--which is very comforting for both of you. Time for you to pay more attention to your self!
PS--I'm glad you have your doggie with you!
Thanks Deb. What a lovely thought: I had hoped this as well because we have the same name, but I hope that she feels me there a little bit. The question is if I can find a better way to cope with the stress other than to have it manifest itself in my body.
Karma,
Take care of yourself - this is more than anyone should have to deal with!
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